I’m
not that old. It wouldn’t surprise me if
85% of you are older than I am—so I don’t have an amazing wealth of wisdom to
draw on when writing of cycling’s enigmatic topics. But there are a few topics that, from my
perspective, seem pretty unambiguous, yet still draw fervent debate from the
two-wheeled (and in this case 4-wheeled) masses. Cyclists’ safety is one of those common sense
issues that in our world of extreme polarization, weasels its way into
controversy.
I don’t
even feel like I’m going out on a limb when I say that safety—whether it
pertains to cyclist-motorist relations, cyclist-cyclist relations, or
cyclist-pavement relations—should not be
a controversial issue. Unfortunately
it is, and we only have ourselves to blame.
More accurately, EVERYONE, cyclists, and motorists, and while we’re at
it, pedestrians alike, have only themselves to blame.
Unfortunately
for everyone, human nature dictates that we have a pretty narrow scope when it
comes to perspective. We tend to see
things from only our own point of view and try as we might; it is difficult to
truly empathize with someone else’s perspective. Because of this, issues like this fall victim
to an “us vs. them” mentality. Let’s
face it people: humans are a pretty selfish breed. Selfishness and our own inability to step
outside of ourselves for even the smallest moment lead to simple issues—like
safety—becoming controversial ones. As a
cyclist, I want measures to protect my rights as a cyclist. As a motorist, Billy wants measures that
protect his rights as a motorist. And
poof, a recipe for controversy is born.
At
their core, these opposing perspectives are not the problem. Cyclists advocating for cyclists and
motorists advocating for motorists should lead to fruitful compromise. The problem is born out of either side’s
selfish inability to consider the other’s point of view. Controversy begets misunderstanding. Misunderstanding begets animosity. Animosity begets this.
At
the beginning of this miniature rant I’ve embarked upon here, I said that this
issue is a simple one. So what do I
propose to solve it? We as cyclists have
to start with ourselves. I’ve seen so
many articles that like to put all the blame on the other side. “Annoying cyclists always ride in the middle
of the street! They always run red
lights!” “Motorists are so careless.
They run us cyclists off the road!
They almost killed me!”
To be
honest, both of those statements are absolutely true. My problem with them though, is that they lay
the blame squarely on the other side—while not even considering that both sides
should share the responsibility. I’m not
the first to say it: a whole bunch of
cyclists ride like jerks. But there are
also plenty of motorists who give little to no respect to cyclists out
there. Confronting this lack of respect
with hostility and even more disrespect only confirms the kinds of
misconceptions each side bares towards the other. So instead of trying to change motorists’
behavior—cyclists should try to change the way they themselves behave. This will change the way that they are
perceived. Ipso facto, drivers won’t
hate us so much—and maybe we can all just get a long a bit better.
There
are some simple things—things that wouldn’t even inconvenience you terribly on
a ride—that will make us seem a bit less hypocritical when we wave our fingers
at our four-wheeled friends.
Though I don't recommend this, this video is pretty funny. Watch out for stuff in the bike lanes.
Don’t
recklessly blow through stop signs and red lights. Don’t get me wrong, I don’t think it is the
end of the world to cautiously roll through either lights or signs when you can
plainly see there is no traffic, but cyclists generally don’t do this—and it
makes us look like assholes. It also
gives motorists the impression that we think we are better than them. I could probably make a reasonable case that
we are, in fact, better, but we are trying to make friends here.
Helmets are cool these days. I promise. This kid looks super cool right? |
For
the love of all things that are good in this world: Wear a freakin’
helmet. I can’t believe it, but I still
see cyclists—of all types (not just hipsters)—rolling without a helmet. How do you expect a motorist to value your
life when you clearly don’t? And don’t
give me this “It’s a personal decision” argument. I don’t buy it. You not wearing a helmet has more to do with
those around you than it does with yourself.
To be blunt, if you are in a serious accident without a helmet on, it’s
likely that you won’t be around to have to deal with the consequences. Plus nowadays helmets look pretty cool. Get one.
Wear it.
Be
predictable. Know your
surroundings. I could go on and on about
little rules that will keep us both safer and in the better graces of
motorists. Let me be clear, I’m not
trying to say that motorists are in the right here—and that we must only change
ourselves to fit into their world. That
is not at all what I think. There was a
wise man who once said “You must be the change you wish to see in the world.” And I’m pretty sure that man was Ghandi. And I’m pretty sure Ghandi knows what he is
talking about.
This guy knows cycling. |
The
real way forward here is to simply be careful.
What we do is extremely dangerous.
So often when you are confronted with an annoyance—like a car, when
cycling, or a bike, when driving—we simply see the other side as just a motorist
or just a cyclist. We fail to see them
as a husband or wife, brother or sister.
I think seeing people as other humans—with family and friends and a job
and a home—make it a lot harder to be a complete jerk to them and endanger
their lives. At least I would hope that
people have at least that much decency.
Now I
know that I may sound a bit optimistic here.
I am aware of the fact that it will take a lot more than just people not
running red lights to stop the conflicts between cyclists and motorists. And at the end of the day, only one of the sides
is piloting a 3,500lbs hunk of metal—so we need to do whatever we can to
protect ourselves. I just wish we did it
without simultaneously giving drivers unlimited fodder for their “take back our
roads” fire.